How serious do you want us to get?

What's the definition of a serious relationship?

quite subjective to be honest. it could range from anything really.

it is you and your partner who can only define that.

my bf and i have our own definition.

i've been in and out of relationships, dating etc. all of those didn't work for some reasons. so learning from past experiences, i know what i want in this relationship.

i personally think relationship can only get serious to some extent. same thing as you can only let yourself to love someone to certain extent or else you're the one who'll get hurt. if you're just in a relationship for a few months and already talk about getting married in a few years time, then that's very unlikely. i'm talking from my own past experience.

so as for me, my bf and i are just enjoying each other's company. we talk, we laugh, we go out and do many other things as a couple. and that's pretty much enough for both of us at the moment. we do not feel the need to cling on to each other 24/7. afterall, we both have our studies to worry about and at times we do wanna hang out with our own group of friends. if one day we do wanna be clingy, let it be mutual coz if only one party is clingy and the other is not, then there's no way that's gonna work, is it?

i'm just saying this out coz quite a number of people are questioning whether are we serious about being together. we are happy the way we are right now, thank you.