The Excuses

this is like an epidemic, really. it happens to all people.

generally, when you can't get something done, you would give your teammates/colleagues etc a whole list of excuses! my cat died, i was sad, i was busy, i was talking to someone, i just broke up, i'm not feeling well.. and it goes on and on and on.

that's friggin normal. but some people are just bad at giving excuses and in the end all you hear is a pile of BULLSHIT.

Owhkay. this is another thing that i discovered about myself just recently.

Sometimes, i give excuses for other people's wrongdoings. and then when i reflect on it again, i feel like crap coz the only question came to my head was "why did i even back him/her up?"

it's not a sense of guilt. it's more like stupidity. because only later on i see his/her true colours and defending him/her was a completely stupidity. owh dear.

so the lesson is.. if your friend or whoever you know is doing shit, and you feel the need to look at the brighter side and giving excuses to your other friends on his/her behalf, i can just tell you one thing.

don't be stupid.

if it's wrong, it's wrong.

don't justify it.

don't make excuses as though he/she is not really doing shit.

and also, don't listen to people's lame excuses.