Girly Chat with My dear Mama

Most Malay men are possessive and overprotective over their gfs and wives.
true or false?

and my answer is............ True.

WHAT DO U THINK?

was having a long chat with my dear Mama about men. heheh. i talk about almost everything with my mama. owh well, it so happened that she asked me how was Liverpool.. ada laki yang Annis berkenan ke... lalala... mama sibuk gle. but i like.

i'm not gonna say what i said to my mama. that's private. but somehow we talked about Malay, Chinese and White men. i told ma, if i were to get a Malay man in the future, i don't think he can put up with my lifestyle and personality. for example, i remember my ex when i was form 3.. he was friggin pissed off with me coz i was loud with my friends at Jaja's open house. i was like wtf. by then u should know me coz that time we were together for 6 months. godddddddddddd...

ok. i'm loud and love to just go out day and night with my friends. i'm no perempuan melayu terakhir please. i don't cover my mouth when i laugh. i'm not a very softspoken person. i'm open and can absolutely talk shit with my friends like 24/7 (that was what my friends n i did in zaim's place in Liverpool). and i don't give a fuck when people wanna criticise how loud i am. that's just me. i won't change myself just to impress a guy.

so yeh.. that's wat i told my mama and she agrees. then she asked, "yg ex awk yg cina tu camne plak?"

owh well i think that was a different case coz he kinda knew me very well then and just had to accept whatever shit i did that he might not even like.

then mama said.. "hmm.. takpe laa.. i think ur break up was a blessing in disguise. die clingy sgt ngan family die. dulu blk msia slalu ngan family je, tak ngan friends ke ape.. pape decision nanti mesti the final decision family die yg buat. one way or another, his gf/wife will always be 2nd to him. chinese families mmg cam tu".

TRUE OR FALSE??

seems very true to me. not talking bout him alone. but Chinese guys in general. i think it's just their culture.

then mama said, "klau compared to Chinese, org putih lagi senang nak convert kot. coz they're more open and they make their own decision". then i said "hmm tapi maa.. byk org putih nak benda tu je la.. susah nak cari yg baik2." ma kata, "tak semua. ada yg baik2.. yg mcm nerd ke". hmm.. nerd tu harus ke, ma?

kesimpulannya ialah.. mak saya nak saya cari bf org putih. ma ckp mcm senang je. adoiii.. takpe la ma. when the time comes, the right man will appear. although.. sometimes i do feel like i want a bf now.. but nahhhh.. thinking about the fun that i'm having now, i prefer no strings attached. i enjoy my freedom and i can't deal with restrictions. unless if that guy can accept me for who i am, then.. maybe.

blab much? i think i did. sorry for wasting ur time. =P

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